Divorce mediation in Calgary is a private, cost-effective way to resolve separation, property and parenting disputes without going to court. At Cunningham Family Law, we represent clients in mediation, arbitration and med-arb processes, helping you reach fair agreements on property division, child support, spousal support, and parenting (often through parenting coordination) while keeping control of the outcome.
Mediation and Arbitration: Effective Alternatives to Court
For many families in Calgary and surrounding areas, resolving separation, divorce, or parenting issues through the court system can be stressful, expensive, and time-consuming. Mediation and arbitration offer two powerful alternatives that allow you to resolve disputes more efficiently, privately, and with greater control over the outcome.
These processes are especially valuable for:
- High-conflict separations
- Complex financial and property matters
- Business and corporate asset division
- High-net-worth clients
- Parenting disputes
- Situations requiring confidentiality
- Couples seeking faster, more predictable results
With a strong background in negotiation, mediation, corporate law, and complex financial matters, we provide strategic guidance to help clients resolve disputes outside the courtroom.
What is Mediation?
Mediation is a voluntary, cooperative process where a neutral third party (the mediator) helps spouses reach an agreement on issues such as:
- Property division
- Parenting arrangements
- Child support
- Spousal support
- Business and corporate matters
- Future dispute-resolution processes
The mediator does not make decisions. Instead, they guide discussions, help identify solutions, and support both parties in reaching a mutually acceptable agreement.
Mediation is ideal for couples who want:
- A respectful, collaborative process
- More control over the outcome
- Lower legal costs
- A faster resolution
- A child-focused approach
- Privacy and confidentiality
Mediation Advantages
- Cost-effective and efficient
- Collaborative and child-focused
- Greater control over the outcome
- Private and confidential
Mediation Limitations
- Not suitable for high-conflict
- No guaranteed resolution
- Mediators won't give advice, only information
- May not work for complex financial disputes
The Process of Mediation in Calgary
The Parties Decide on Mediation
The parties need to first agree to participate in mediation and select a mediator.
Information Gathering
Both parties exchange financial disclosure and any relevant documents.

Mediation Sessions
The mediator facilitates discussions, helps identify solutions, and guides the parties toward agreement. Parties may attend with or without counsel.
Drafting the Agreement
Once terms are reached, settlement terms or a separation agreement or parenting agreement is drafted, sometimes by the mediator to ensure neutrality and agreement on terms. However, legal advice is not provided.

Independent Legal Advice
Each party receives ILA to ensure the agreement is voluntary and informed.

Signing the Agreement
Once both parties are satisfied, the agreement is signed and becomes legally binding.
What is Arbitration?
Arbitration is a more structured process where a neutral arbitrator acts like a private judge. After reviewing evidence and hearing arguments, the arbitrator makes a binding decision on the issues in dispute.
Arbitration is often used when:
- Negotiations have stalled
- One or both parties want a final decision
- The issues are complex or high-stakes
- Court delays are too long
- Privacy is a priority
- A faster, more predictable outcome is needed
Arbitration can address:
- Property division
- Spousal support
- Child support
- Parenting disputes
- Business and financial issues
Arbitration awards are legally enforceable and often faster than court decisions.
Arbitration Advantages
- Binding, enforceable decisions
- Faster than court
- Ideal for complex or high-conflict matters
- Private and confidential
Arbitration Limitations
- Higher cost than mediation
- Less control over the outcome
- Limited appeal options
- More formal and evidence-driven
The Process of Arbitration in Calgary

The Parties Decide on Arbitration
The parties need to first agree to participate in arbitration and select a arbitrator.

A: Mediation Sessions Begin (OPTIONAL)
If the parties are in mediation-arbitration, the issues are first mediated prior to formal arbitration, if no resolution is reached in mediation.
B: Disclosure and Preparation
Financial and parenting information is exchanged, similar to court.

Hearings or Submissions
The arbitrator reviews evidence and hears arguments.

Decision
The arbitrator issues a binding decision (called an “award”).

Implementation
The award is enforceable and can be filed with the court if needed.
Comparison of Mediation and Arbitration
| Feature | Mediation | Arbitration |
|---|---|---|
| Decision-maker | Parties can make their own decisions | Arbitrator makes binding decisions |
| Process style | Collaborative, interest-based | Structured, evidence-based |
| Control over outcome | High - parties decide and agree | Lower - arbitrator decides |
| Cost | Generally lower | Higher, but still generally less than court |
| Speed | Fast, flexible scheduling | Fast, avoids court delays |
| Privacy | Fully private | Fully private |
| Best for | Cooperative couples, smaller parenting issues, negotiated settlements | High-conflict matters, complex financial issues, need for finality |
| Enforceability | Agreements are usually binding once signed | Decision is binding and enforceable |
| Formality | Informal discussions | More formal, similar to court |
Why Calgary Clients Choose Cunningham Family Law for Mediation and Arbitration
Clients trust us because we offer:
- Strong negotiation and mediation skills
- Deep experience with complex financial and property matters
- Clear, practical advice tailored to each client’s goals
- A calm, organized approach during high-stress situations
- A focus on long-term stability and efficient resolution
- Responsive communication and client-centered service
Whether your matter is cooperative or high-conflict, you receive strategic guidance every step of the way.
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Mediation is particularly effective for couples who want to maintain a respectful relationship after separation, especially when children are involved. Arbitration, on the other hand, provides a binding decision from a neutral third party when negotiation reaches an impasse.
If you are considering mediation or arbitration, or if you want to avoid the stress and cost of court, strategic legal guidance can help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Whether your matter involves parenting, support, property division, or complex financial issues, you can resolve your dispute efficiently and privately.
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Speak To A LawyerMediation & Arbitration FAQs
What is the difference between mediation and arbitration in Alberta?
Mediation is a voluntary, collaborative process where a neutral mediator helps spouses reach an agreement. Arbitration is a more structured process where a neutral arbitrator makes a binding decision, similar to a private judge. Mediation focuses on cooperation; arbitration provides finality when parties cannot agree.
Is mediation or arbitration better for family law disputes in Calgary?
It depends on your situation. Mediation works well for cooperative couples who want control over the outcome. Arbitration is ideal for high-conflict situations, complex financial issues, or when a binding decision is needed. Many families use a combination of both through med-arb.
Is mediation mandatory before going to court in Alberta?
While not always mandatory, Alberta courts generally require mediation or other alternative dispute-resolution processes before litigation. Many judges expect parties to attempt mediation first, especially in parenting and support matters.
How long does mediation take?
Mediation timelines vary depending on the issues involved. Some families resolve matters in a single session, while others require multiple meetings. Mediation is usually faster than court and can be scheduled around the parties’ availability.
How long does arbitration take?
Arbitration is significantly faster than court. Once the arbitrator is selected and disclosure is complete, hearings or submissions can be scheduled quickly. Most arbitration decisions are issued within weeks, not months or years.
Is mediation legally binding in Alberta?
Mediation itself is not binding, but once the parties reach an agreement and sign a separation agreement or consent order, supported by independent legal advice, it becomes legally enforceable.
Is arbitration legally binding in Alberta?
Yes. Arbitration decisions (called “awards”) are binding and enforceable, similar to court orders. They can be filed with the Court of King’s Bench if enforcement is required.
Can mediation or arbitration be used for complex financial issues?
Absolutely. Both processes are commonly used for high-net-worth separations involving:
- Businesses and professional practices
- Corporate shareholdings
- Real estate portfolios
- Pensions and retirement assets
- Trusts and inheritances
Arbitration is often preferred when a binding decision is needed on valuation or income issues.
Are mediation and arbitration private?
Yes. Both processes are confidential and conducted outside the public court system. This is a major advantage for clients who value privacy, including business owners, professionals, and high-net-worth individuals.
Do I need a lawyer for mediation or arbitration?
While not legally required, having a lawyer is strongly recommended. A mediator cannot give legal advice, and arbitration involves evidence, submissions, and binding decisions. Legal guidance ensures your rights and long-term interests are protected.
What happens if mediation doesn’t work?
If mediation does not result in an agreement, you can move to arbitration, negotiation, or, if necessary, court. Many families choose med-arb, where the same neutral professional first mediates and then arbitrates any unresolved issues.
How much do mediation and arbitration cost in Calgary?
Costs vary depending on the complexity of the issues and the time required. Mediation is generally less expensive than arbitration, and both are typically more cost-effective than court. Complex financial matters may require additional preparation or expert input.
Can mediation or arbitration help with parenting disputes?
Yes. Mediation is often the preferred process for parenting issues because it encourages cooperation and child-focused solutions. Arbitration can be used when parents cannot agree and a binding decision is needed.
Can we choose our own mediator or arbitrator?
Yes. One of the advantages of these processes is the ability to select a neutral professional with the right training and experience for your situation. This allows for a more tailored and efficient process.
How do I start mediation or arbitration in Calgary?
The first step is to meet with a family lawyer who can assess your situation, explain your options, and help you choose the right process. From there, you can select a mediator or arbitrator and begin preparing for disclosure and discussions.
Content posted on our website is not legal advice. Please contact us for legal advice specific to your unique circumstances.
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